Growing Up with the 'Boss's Child' Label
Next-generation members of family businesses often face the 'boss's child' label; to prove themselves, many first choose to experience the world outside the family company.
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The next-generation members of family businesses, born into a successful structure, often face the "bossThe person holding the highest decision-making authority in a business — anyone who founds, buys or inherits it. The title can pass from generation to generation. See in glossary →'s child" label. Their successes get read as "thanks to the family," their failures as "despite every advantage."
For this reason, many young people choose to experience the world outside the family business in order to discover their own potential and prove themselves. On this journey, the family's greatest task is to give them the space and the trust to discover who they are.
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As a next-generation member, you are born into a successful structure and, from the very first day, meet a label: the "boss's child." At first it may seem flattering, but as a person matures and needs to stand on their own, it turns into a challenge. Being born into a thriving business brings certain anxieties with it; the thought "What if I can't be as successful as my family?" strains a young person's confidence at certain points.
Whatever they do, they run into three situations where the label sticks. If they succeed: "They already had the means; they did it thanks to the family." If they fail: "With all those advantages they still couldn't do it; it was obvious." If they try nothing at all: "The boss's child is just taking it easy." In all three, the label stays put.
Over time this can become an identity problem. The wish to be an individual in one's own right, and the need to prove oneself, can pull the young person away from the family business. They want to understand their own strengths, explore their interests, and see whether they can succeed in those areas. While doing so, they often feel more at ease outside the family company; with all eyes on them, they don't always prefer to be tested. Believing it would be hard to achieve this in the family's shadow, they may want to spend a period outside the company.
Young people themselves sometimes admit this in our conversations and call it an escape. Yet this process is not aimed outward; first and foremost it means the young person proving themselves to the family. Because we usually begin working and communicating through the current generation, the families we work with tend to be visionary and mindful of successionThe transfer of management and ownership in a family business to the next generation — approached not as a moment of 'handover' but as a long development journey that begins with growing the next generation. See in glossary →. That said, we also see young people who enter this process independently of the current generation and who, once they prove themselves, are noticed by their family, sometimes even building succession awareness within the current generation.
"Boss's child" is a heavy label. But shedding it begins when the young person presses the button on their own controller.
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